I use to get trolling comments about my weight when I was very heavy. After losing what was equal to an entire person(and they could no longer hurl hateful fat comments at me), I now get the anonymous trolls telling me my attitude is terrible. Well I may have a bad attitude at times but it is because of how some people(ie family members) have unfairly treated me the last two years, but at least I am a real person, who has been through things nobody can imagine. I am unlike so many online phonies.
I tried to show people how to live debt free and make the most of what they have but no, all those snapchat selfie young people want is to appear to have the perfect life, the perfect house, the perfect whatever. But I guess I am too old-fashioned for this young generation. Blogging has changed from when I started when dinosaurs roamed the earth.
I am done with all the haters online.
It was nice while it lasted.
Sluggy
I am so sorry. I don’t comment much but I have been reading you for years and I always look forward to your blog. I will never understand the Trolls and I think you are brave and strong.
ReplyDeleteMelissa
People never really know what someone else is going through.
ReplyDeleteDon't let the door hit ya.....
ReplyDeleteAnd another asshole heard from....
DeleteWow, anonymous. That was really rude, mean, and cowardly. I've learned tips and ideas from Sluggy and feel like she's been a good friend to us online. I have met her in person and greatly enjoyed our visit. Life changes and not always for the better. Sometimes being able to get the stress out through the keyboard is a healthy way to deal with the muck life can throw. It's quite simple to just stop following a blog you don't want to read.
DeleteI am sorry this is happening.
DeleteSusan
I'm sorry to see you go. I have never commented before, but am totally amazed by your shopping genius! I will miss hearing about real life. I think kids today have their heads in the sand. If you don't acknowledge problems then they aren't real right?? I am glad to know that others struggle with children, health, and aging. It is real, and you have always been real. Thank you for sharing despite all the cowards who feel so bad about themselves that they have to rip on everyone else!
DeleteGee, Anonymous -- could you say the same things if you had the guts to use your name?? I fervently hope Slugmama blocks you permanently.
DeleteI've been reading for years (rarely if ever commented) but I have really appreciated how transparent you have been with your finances. It has been a great motivation and has given me a lot of knowledge. I'm sorry to see you leave.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry you are getting trolled. I really enjoy your blog and will be sorry if you end it. I visit everyday to see what’s new.
ReplyDeleteI am sorry you are being trolled. I enjoy your blog and visit everyday. I will be sad to see it end.
ReplyDeleteI’ll miss you. We are not all assholes…all of the time anyway.
ReplyDeleteJoe
I don't see why people have to be so mean. I enjoyed your blog and will miss you.
ReplyDeleteI have enjoyed reading your posts for a while and i understand why you want to stop. i wish you a wonderful holiday season. You will be missed!, thank you for so many years of nice and fun posts!
ReplyDeleteMartha
Please don't let the trolls win. I always read every post and have used a lot of your menus and tips on how you purchase items for next to nothing or even end up earning money from purchases. I'm not a big commenter but never miss one of your posts
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear it, but I understand. The world seems to be in a very negative space right now. Good luck on your health journey.
ReplyDeleteWhat kind of weirdo continues to read and comment on a blog that they hate? It’s easier to just stop reading.
ReplyDeleteUgh, those trolls are awful! I had a really hurtful comment sent to me after I posted something someone else said politically on my blog letting readers know to be financially alert just in case. I’m so sorry they are ruining this platform for you. I enjoy reading your blog and am in awe of how you saved money over the years and have such a great retirement income thanks to years of your and your hubbies hard work. You are so inspiring, I hope you’ll stick around.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry to hear that. People can be really harsh & say things that they would never say in real life. Do whatever makes you the happiest. Life is too short to blog (or really, doing anything) that makes you miserable. If that means no longer blogging, I'll miss hearing what you're up to, but it's best for you. (Hawaii Planner)
ReplyDeleteI know it's easy to say but please don't let them get to you. There are many that enjoy reading your posts and find them helpful.
ReplyDeletePeople suck. I will never understand how people can say things as they sit behind a screen but would never dream of saying it to your face. (I personally would stick around just to irritate the hell out of them)I will miss all your frugal tips. And hearing about all the places you visit. G. From Nebraska
ReplyDeleteWe disagree politically and there is no around that, however, I hope you can find peace and joy for 2025, you have been through a lot.
ReplyDeleteSluggy you will be missed . I learned so much from you and enjoyed reading your blog. Take care of yourself. Joyce of pa
ReplyDeleteI’m sorry to hear this. Hope you reconsider.
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry there are so many keyboard
ReplyDeletecowards in the world.
So many trolls still living in Mommy's basement that feel they know anything about life. Don't worry life's waiting and has something for their ass.
Don't let anyone silence you.
If you chose to stop that's one thing but
don't let anyone chose for you.
It amazes me with all the awful things going on in the world that there people who actually worry about what someone weighs. It's amazing how much weight you lost. It's so hard when you're older to lose it. Then procedure on your brain.
You have been through an awful lot lately. Go easy on yourself.
Take a break and recoup.
I hope to hear from you again.
Being bashed online and by your children is a lot to take. Add on your medical problems and you have a steep hill. I have enjoyed your sense of humor and your scores. What a mind you have. But you have to do what is best for your sanity. So many mean people. Take care.
ReplyDeleteWhy haven't you shut the blog down yet????
ReplyDeleteJust to piss miserable trolls like you off!
DeleteMove your blog to X if you really want to piss the trolls off. There the trolls have no power and we can say whatever it is we want to without fear thank to Elon Musk. I also recommend TikTok. Millie again.
DeleteWe all know that in the current financial situation in America, only the elites are doing well. And where are they? They lost! They're trying to tear the rest of us down....especially a conservative and a Trump supporter. Never you mind, Sluggy. America is changing now. She has gotten back her common sense and there's a bunch of people who are going to learn about life, the hard way. Let them go Sluggy. America is going to be a much better place for the likes of you and me. If you need to write, to express yourself, as I do.....start a diary. Eventually do a memoir. I only wish you the best. May God continue to bless you and your family. It's all going to be alright. Millie.
ReplyDeleteI am so so sorry you are having nasty trolls make comments. I read you and enjoy your blog. My life kinda sucks at the moment so I have not been commenting much. Cindy in the South
ReplyDeleteI'm sorry that others are making you feel bad. I have learnt a huge amount from your blog and am disappointed to see you stop. Thanks for taking the time to blog and share your knowledge. Susan.
ReplyDeletePeople are just awful. And the internet gives them permission to be anonymously awful. I have loved reading your blog, your frugal tips, and your humor. Please know that everyone out in internet land is NOT bad.
ReplyDeleteMy comment must not have went thru, Sluggy. I've learned a lot from you over the years and am in awe of your abilities and skill. I hope you'll stay and I always wish you well.
ReplyDeleteFunny how trolls don't seem to understand that you're never truly anonymous on the internet. Easy enough to follow back the url and dox the troll's blog pages, address and personal information publicly and let society teach them they really aren't safe just because they don't leave their name. Payback is a bitch.
ReplyDeleteI hope you don't shut your blog down because I really enjoy your posts,you're an interesting smart lady that doesn't take any crap from anybody.People who make ignorant comments are just a bunch of bitter,jealous lowlifes,ignore them.I pray for your health and family relationships to improve and that you will have a peace filled joyful Christmas season !
ReplyDeleteI for one will miss you. I have been reading you for so many years and have enjoyed hearing about everything that you have chosen to blog about. You are honest about your life whether it be good or bad. I know I felt like I wasn't alone when I read about your medical issues or family issues. We all have them and hearing your honesty in writing about them helped me know there are others out there going through alot of the same things. I will miss you.
ReplyDeleteSusan R
I'm so sorry you're experiencing this...it's easier for some to attack rather than ignore something they don't agree with, especially in an anonymous format that wouldn't be tolerated in person.
ReplyDeletePlease don't go!! Although I see why you would want to. These idiots are ugly little trolls sitting in grandma's basement just hoping to get chance to hurt someone. Think about what a sad low person they are and its obvious they dont have anything or anyone that cares for them. Just ignore them like the real world does.
ReplyDeletePlease don't stop! I enjoy your blog very much, even if I don't agree 100% all the time. (You don't have to on my blog...I shouldn't demand you do so on yours!) Just block these creepy people...and keep on posting. Please.
ReplyDeleteI sure wouldn't want to read such unkind and negative comments on my blog. I agree with Millie about starting a diary to write down your thoughts and be able to express your feelings without others' negativity. I think it's time to shut it down. It will probably relieve mental stress. diane
ReplyDeleteI hope you don't give in to the trolls and negative comments. I for one enjoy the "realness" of your posts. Life is messy. I actually unfollowed someone who badmouthed you for being honest awhile ago. Stay for me who you don't know ;)~ Please?
ReplyDeleteOh, I hope you don't stop:( I'm sorry I don't comment more often...I'm bad about that (as well as about blogging myself) but I DO read your posts and enjoy them! Hope you change your mind!
ReplyDeleteI would get great joy in just pissing them off. You go girl!
ReplyDeleteSluggy, this is Jackie in CA. Although our politics may differ, I have learned a lot from you and felt heartache for you with some of the things you have shared that you have been through. I hope you don't shut down the blog; I would miss you a lot. But some of these comments are just mean. I hope you notice that none of your "real" readers feel the way they do!
ReplyDeleteSluggy, your blog is wonderful and so are you! I am so sorry people are not nice anymore. Cindy in the South
ReplyDeleteSluggy you can keep your blog. Make it by invitation only.
ReplyDeleteWhoever this troll is, although hurtful, it is in fact a troll. Not a friend. Not a blog buddy. I cannot fathom how you and your husband changed your whole life to live closer to your kids and they dissed you. How terrible. But from what I have read over the years, you are one tough cookie. Do not let them break your spirit.
Bun
Honestly, I can understand. You tried to teach people how to save money. I was never a couponer I just loved the magic tricks and your sense of humor. I hope next year is better.
ReplyDeleteTake care.
Jre I hope you don’t shut down, let the haters hate I guess, keep posting just to p… them off. I’ve always enjoyed your posts and learned things.
ReplyDeleteLong time reader, rarely comment but I do enjoy your blog and read it daily. I love all your savings idea and get a lot of ibotta rebate ideas from you.
ReplyDeleteSluggy, have loved your blog yet understand there are too many crazy people out there. Please post on Kim’s blog as you feel inspired, many of us want to know what you are up to ;). Hilogene in Az
ReplyDeleteI personally will miss your blog. With my black heart I would have to keep it going if no other reason than to irritate the minions.
ReplyDeletesending good thoughts to you, even if we disagree i hope joy comes into your life again.
ReplyDeletePlease don't stop writing. There are assholes everywhere in life, there always has and always will be. People need blogs like this and bloggers like you. Screw the trolls.
ReplyDeleteTrolls can be so hateful and if you have to read it before you can delete it that must really be awful.
ReplyDeleteI have always enjoyed your blog, you are a consistent voice that I always read and catch up on.