First the good.....
If you haven't seen this on my Facebook already, #2 son's Marching Band had a big regional tournament Sunday in Hershey PA. The band performed very well and they won their Division! In addition they were awared top honors in 4 individual areas.
I am so glad to see them do well finally. Our Band Parent's Association hosts one of the big local Tourneys at the high school. Our band finished last in the 'open' division at that. Our band is very small. Our band gets next to zero $s from the school district, so the parents are saddled with most of the costs to cloth, host competitions, travel to competitions, etc. This lack of resources puts our band at a large disadvantage next to other schools who have much larger parent associations as well as more funding. We usually compete in the open division but with the big glitzy bands the kids have to compete with, they never finish very high up the food chain.
There is one local band that we have a David and Goliath type competition with.....to put it into GLEE SPEAK(for those of you who are "gleeks", we are New Directions and we compete with Vocal Adrenalin.
And after working the tourney our band hosts and seeing the directors and parents and the kids in this Goliath band up close and personal, I can honestly say that most of them that I have had to deal with are NOT very nice people. They are rude, the universe revolves around them and their needs, and they have no class.
So seeing as we really can't compete on an equal footing with the Mega-Bands, we now compete in a different division. And it seems to be paying off.
Speaking of people who think the universe revolves around them.....
We are having large problems with our Daughter. She has always been too smart for her own good. Getting good grades, etc. has been a nice result. But she has "too big for her britches" syndrome and has had it for the last 5 years or so. She feels she is the center of the universe and she treats other people(her family)like dog poo....unless of course, she wants something from you, and then she treats you nice until she gets her way. She no longer wishes to be associated with our family except for us to do for her and give her her own way in things. She doesn't feel the need to respect her parents or her siblings, or to lift a finger to help the family. It's all a big she takes and we give.
If fact, she is making life so stressful for her parents and her younger brother when she is home that we are at the point that once she turns 18 next month, she may be asked to find someplace else to live.
I love my Daughter and I thought we could make the current living situation work well enough to get her graduated and off to college(which would have her NOT living here then), but I'm not so sure we can make it until June. My health is suffering and she is becoming verbally abusive toward me.
Unfortunately we don't have any family locally who we can pack her off to for awhile until things cool off or she grows up a tad so I don't know what you are going to do.
In other news.....Daughter got her acceptance to Ohio State today. I have no clue WHY she applied there. We aren't big OH football fans and we don't live in Ohio.lol
But she did and she got in.
We are still waiting for the "yeah" or "ney" from the one school we haven't heard back from....Penn State.
Hopefully soon.
I have reopened my eBay store for the Holidays. SSP(aka Shameless Self Promotion) link is
HERE.
I'm hoping even with the economy and the sluggishness of eBay, I can unload some goodies to the Holiday buyers. I am concentrating on listing toys and collectibles since it's the gift buying time of year. Even with this heavy stuff at Christmas someone might overlook the shipping expense more and I can get some of these large weighty items outta here!lol
At any rate, my living room and dining room now looks like a postal warehouse has exploded in there with all the bubble wrap, boxes and merchandise everywhere. Throw in a few boxes loaded with fabric since I store those in there and it's such a lovely sight.lol
The one thing that all my years doing eBay has done for me? It has made me an expert at re-cutting and gerryrigging boxes for shipping. Now, if there was some industry where I could put this skill to work for me as a career....besides eBay that is.lol
I cleaned the interior of my minivan on Sunday. It was LOOOOOONG overdue! For the past 2 years I have told the kids that if they wanted to make some extra money that cleaning my car was tops on that list and the money was available at any time should they undertake that chore.
2 years and it was still undone.
So I hauled out the vacuum cleaner, clorox wipes, windex and newspaper and just got it done before winter weather sets in.
Saturday was the last day to qualify for the Thanksgiving Deal at the local independent grocery store. If you spent a minimum of $300 in 5 weeks' time you got a $15 gift certificate. It wasn't even a free bird deal but the best thing going in these parts.
I made a run to the grocery store Saturday evening and we ended the qualifying period with $115 in purchases....so not EVEN halfway to the amount we needed to spend to get that $15 certificate.
Oh well.
Last year I ended up doing the Price Chopper Turkey Deal....spend $25 in one transaction and get a free bird.
This year Price Chopper has upped the ante tho....spend $50 in one transaction and get a free bird.
Egads!
Doubled the qualifying price!!
And I don't even like turkey so I am so not liking this deal and tempted to eat chicken this year instead.lol
That's about it for now from my corner of the world.
What's new in yours?
Sluggy