Showing posts with label anxiety about buying stuff and deadlines. Show all posts
Showing posts with label anxiety about buying stuff and deadlines. Show all posts

Friday, May 16, 2014

I Promise This is the Last Car Post--Ramblings On Spending Money

Well it's sort of a car post anyway.

Still no decision here on the new vehicle(or new to me vehicle depending on which one I go with).

I did contact my cc company this week and requested that they raise my credit limit $5K.
I am planning, no matter which car I buy, to put it on my credit card.

Ok, before you all have heart failure out there, remember that I pay my card off every month in FULL.
I never put more on it than I can pay off before each billing cycle ends.

Putting it on the card is more a convenience measure for me.

Plus do you realize how many freaking reward points I'll get for putting a $15K+ car on it?
All I can say is free Christmas gift cards for everyone! lolz

So in prep for the car purchase I raised the limit and I also already paid off the current balance, most of which was put on there from our vacation trip last month, Hub's commuting gas purchases and some clothes I got real cheap at K-Mart for #2 Son.
A $3400+ balance.
Thank goodness for a 3 paycheck month, which will go a long way to cover all that.

I've been kind of freaking out quietly all this week.

Not only do I have to drop a load of cash on a car, but we got word from various members of Hub's family that 2 of his siblings WILL be attending #2 Son's graduation after all.  This means not only do I have to find room to house & feed at least 1 of them but also my brother and his wife(who we knew for months were coming).  I don't like short notice on stuff like this.
Now it means more people in my house and it is NOT ready for this invasion of family.

For starters, I still have no living or dining room furniture.
I have a rug and a folding camping table and a coffee table my Hubs refuses to part with for some unknown reason.  He seems very attached to it and frankly, it is butt ugly.   But then again, so am I and he seems very attached to me too.  lolz

I just feel all this pressure now to buy furniture too and while not as expensive as a car, you all know that ain't cheap either.

So I've got a time crunch and I just can't seem to find exactly what I want at the price I want to pay that I can get delivered in time for the graduation.

Sure, it would be easy to just go in Raymour and Flannigan, pick out a matchy matchy set of something or other and hand over the credit card and have it in 3 days.

We did go in there last Sunday and they had a beautiful sofa for $900.  I just can't seem to pull the trigger on it because I don't think I should have to pay $900 for the sofa I want.
Of course as soon as I buy something, the thing will go on sale and I'll be banging my head against a wall.... ;-)
That's the way it always goes in my world.

I just don't like making snap decisions no matter how much it means forking over.
And having this kind of deadline just makes me want to dig in my heels and not make a decision even more.

I am sort of passive aggressive that way.

I guess the stress of my daughter's house purchase is also feeding into my anxiety.  The bank keeps pushing back the closing and the daughter is none too pleased and we are all on tenterhooks. 
While this gives her time to save up a little more cash before closing it also means they will have to move into the house almost immediately, before some necessary work can get done.  Ugh.  Stupid bank......

I just need to suck it up, take a Xanax or five(and a nap!)and get through the next couple of weeks.

Sluggy