Thursday, August 24, 2017

This is Personal Now

I try to stay out of the political fracas.  Most of it is pointless anyway....just one party ripping the other party a new one and directing attention away from their own misdeeds.  Don't get me started on the banality of the two party system that just won't go away. 8-(

This current removing Confederate statues by the ultra-left extremists is just such a waste of energy and thought.
But it just turned personal to me on Tuesday evening in Columbus, Ohio.

I was born and raised in the South.  One of my parents was also born, raised, lived her whole life and died in the South.

If you haven't lived there for a length of time you just have no business commenting on the Southern "way of life and outlook" and you can't know the mind of a true Southerner.

You probably really don't know Southern history.  What you were spoon-fed in a school history class wasn't the "whole" story(it was most probably the Union revisionist history as the victor writes the bulk of the history books)and taken as a chapter in a book without any context tells you nothing about being Southern, the Southern causes, the Southern mentality and how the South fits into and relates to the US as a whole.
Add in that I bet most people weren't really paying much attention in those history classes either so many just operate throughout their whole lives after the schooling is done on generalizations and myths that have grown up around historical figures and events.

On Tuesday evening, unknown criminals(because that is what you are if you destroy property)snuck into a cemetery in Columbus Ohio and destroyed a statue in that hallowed ground.


Here is the statue in question atop a stone archway in the cemetery before it was defiled.
Notice that the arch says "Americans", not Southerns or Confederates.



And here is the statue after the act of cowardice.  Someone scaled that stone arch and pushed the zinc statue to the ground.  The impact broke the head off the statue and the criminals absconded with said head.

I take this personally because, being a genealogist and being very connected to my own ancestral roots, I know that I have family in that particular cemetery.

If you've been reading this blog for a length of time you'll remember that Hubs and I took a trip to Columbus Ohio back in 2012 as a Summer getaway.  On that trip we made a stop at this cemetery so I could take photos of my ancestor's headstone and visit with him.


Me in June 2012 at the grave of my 4 x Great Uncle.
That blog post is HERE is you care to read it. (The part about the trip to the cemetery is near the end.)

Joseph James Hamilton was 43 years old when he enlisted into the Confederate Army on 16 April 1864. He was part of the Reserve forces or the Home Guard.  I believe he only enlisted at that time because the Union forces were invading the area of Virginia where his family resided by this date.

Joseph fought in the 1st Battle of Saltville, 2 Oct 1864, when the Union forces tried to capture an important saltworks in Western Virginia.  Back in the mid 19th century salt was still a pivotal commodity without which civilization couldn't be sustained, so losing access to a salt works meant death.

Joseph Hamilton was wounded and captured by the Yankees in this battle and transported up North, to Camp Chase outside of Columbus, OH.
Camp Chase began as a training and munitions storage area for Union troops soon after the outbreak of war.  As the war raged and time went on it became a facility to imprison captured Confederate POW soldiers.

Joseph Hamilton died there at Camp Chase 6 Dec 1864, just over two months after his capture.  He died needlessly from gangrene brought on by infection and lack of medical treatment to the wound he sustained at the Battle of Saltville.
While folks make great noise about Southern POW camps like the notorious Andersonville, little protest is made of all the soldiers who perished in Northern POW camps.  I find it much more reprehensible the treatment the Union meted out to it's prisoners of war.
The North had many greater times the supplies, especially medical supplies, than the nearly vanquished Southern states of the Confederacy did, especially by late 1864.  Letting any POW held in the North go without needed medical treatment and/or supplies in the North where supplies were plentiful,  was excessively punitive and morally unconscionable(dare I say evil).

My photo of the generic Confederate soldier statue taken in Jun 2012.

But I digress......
The fact is that unknown persons broke into this cemetery and defiled it.  Besides being a sacred space, a burial ground for 2,260 Americans(mostly POWs but some Northern workers at the camp who died during their time at Camp Chase)this area is also federal property, overseen by the Veterans Administration.
If the perpetrators are caught I hope the legal system persecutes them to the fullest extent of the law.

Why are people lashing out at statues anyway?  I just don't "get it".  This statue wasn't of any specific historical figure or even in a public space(courthouse grounds, in a park, etc.).  This statue was just a generic representative of a CSA soldier standing watch over a small number of Southern men who fought for their states' rights/the Confederacy and were buried far, far from their homes.

I posted the following on Facebook back when this craziness began in Charlottesville.  It's not written by me but there are truths in it that need sharing and considering.

"It is a fact of humanity that people need a place to go and grieve their loved ones who pass on.  Even if a loved one is cremated, the ashes are lovingly preserved somewhere easily accessible or scattered in a specific place that can be returned to.  As human beings, we need a place to go grieve, which is why we go to cemeteries where our loved ones are buried and place flowers or mementos for special occasion and do so regularly.

The truth is the people in the South were the same way.  The vast majority of Confederate soldiers did not die at home.  They died on a battlefield, in a hellish prison camp or in a hospital far from home.  Sometimes the bodies were retrieved but that was not the case most of the time.  That is the reason the South is salted with Confederate monuments.  Our people needed a place to grieve.  How can outsiders come to our home and demand gravestones to our father be removed?  How?
Those monuments have stood for 100+ years.  How dare you?  How dare you?

Confederate monuments are NOT monuments to white supremacy and you know it.
Confederate monument were not erected to intimidate anyone and you know it.  They were erected for the grieving family members to have a place to grieve and they put them where everyone in town could have access to them, and see them on a regular basis so as not to forget.  We, in the South, do NOT forget.

What you may not know is how the monuments were paid for, erected and dedicated.  The majority of the men in the South, did not survive the war and the women, daughters, mothers, wives, sisters, grandmothers and nieces raised the money out of their poverty.  Their abject poverty.  There are ads in Confederate Veteran magazine that are heartbreaking as it lists the donations from bereaved orphans, wives, and family members of dimes, nickels and quarters.  These bereaved persons did without sugar for their tea or butter for their bread in order to raise money to pay for the monuments, which serve as gravestones for their loved ones.

The truth is, the monuments you are removing in our South are gravestones for the ones who did not get to come home......"

A large number of news outlets have recently been saying that erecting Confederate monuments during the Jim Crow era  was a deliberate move on the part of political leaders in the South .  It was just a way to repress the black citizenry and assert white supremacy during the first part of the 20th century below the Mason-Dixon line.

There may be a grain or two of truth in regard to some monuments but the number of monuments erected after the Plessy vs. Ferguson court ruling was more a coincidence rather than cause and effect.  Between suppressed recovery in the South after the war, widespread poverty and the slow recovery of it's citizenry due to an inadequate diet-from 1865 until well after World War I, a delayed response toward erecting Confederate monuments can be easily explained.
Though many would like to point to racism it is not always the cause.

I have a number of ancestors who were Confederate soldiers.  Many were killed in action, like John Lee Holt, a school teacher from Virginia who died during Pickett's Charge at Gettysburg.  Their bodies were never found and returned home, or were buried in mass graves whose locations are lost to time.
An image of Joseph James Hamilton shared by another descendant of his on Ancestry dotcom.

It is "lucky" that Joseph Hamilton died while imprisoned in Ohio and his burial place is well marked.
At least his people have a place to go to honor his memory and sacrifice.

Removing Confederate monuments will not erase our national past.  In order to move forward we need to accurately remember what went before so as not to repeat history.


Sluggy





Wednesday, August 23, 2017

The Return of the Rite-Aid Posts

Saturday I had some Rxs to pick up and I also bought this stuff here...........


6 x Orbit gum packs on sale $1 each=$6.00
3 x Mentos Now mints on sale $1 each=$3.00
SubTotal......$9.00

Coupons Used
3 x .50/2 Orbit Manu Qs=$1.50
1 x BOGOF Mentos Now Mints Manu Q=$1.00
Coupon Total.......$2.50

$9.00-$2.50=$6.00 + .12¢tax=$6.12 Paid with Plenti Points.

I earned back $3 in new PPs(2 x $1 wyb3 Orbit gum, $1 wyb3 Mentos mints)so I "spent down" $3.12 in PPs.


Another Rx picked up on Tuesday so I bought this too......



8 x Mentos rolls on sale 4/$2=$4.00

I had a $1 wyspend $4 on Candy Rite-Aid Catalina that kicked out on Saturday so this cost me $3.00 for all, which was paid for with Plenti Points.

I also earned back $2 in new PPs($1 wyb2 Mentos x 2)so in the end all 8 rolls cost me $1 in Plenti Points.

17 packages of candy/gum for $4.12 in Plenti Points.
These will make cheap stocking stuffers for Christmas(or I can give some out for Trick or Treating at Halloween, or I can tuck some into future Giveaway boxes).  8-)

Sluggy

Tuesday, August 22, 2017

A Busy Saturday to Tuesday-Cooking!

Hubs and I went to Maine Source on Saturday and I picked up some meat and veg-a pork shoulder, 5 lbs. ground beef, 10 lb. bag of onions, 4 lbs. of green beans(@ .79¢ lb.), 6 ears of sweet corn and 3 packages of mushrooms.  I also went to Weis(PMITA)Markets for their Fantastic Friday sale and got two whole chickens(@ .75¢ lb.).

Add in that the cuke plants have been in overdrive while we were gone AND the kids didn't eat a single one(though they picked 5).  I picked another 5 on Friday plus there are SEVENTEEN more out in the garden still.  8-O

So on Sunday(and Monday)I was in food prep/cooking mode.

I tried really hard not to run the oven as it's been typical August weather here(hot and muggy).  I did have to acquiesce on Monday evening though to make the mac and cheese.  College Boy had requested it before going back to college.

Sunday, the pork shoulder got put in the smoker outside.......


That was put in the crock pot last night to perk away overnight and will be pulled pork sandwiches this evening for dinner.

I also prepped, blanched and divvied up the green beans into dinner sized portions and froze all put one bag for later.

One of the whole chickens I bought on Friday got dumped into the freezer and on Saturday the other had a can of beer shoved up it's ass and grilled to within an inch of it's life and served with boxed stuffing and fresh corn on the cob.

I defrosted chicken breasts on Saturday in the fridge and with the addition of Marsala wine and all those mushrooms I bought, I turned this into Chicken Marsala over Noodles and served it with Tossed Salad on Sunday.

I also took a London Broil out of the freezer on Saturday as well and set to marinating it in the fridge for two days.  It was grilled and served along with spinach souffle and homemade mac and cheese(at the kids' request)on Monday.

As for the 5 lbs. of ground beef--1 lb. was reserved for hamburgers for lunch on Tuesday and the other 4 lbs. was turned into WV hot dog chili on Sunday........


I've portioned this big pot of chili up into 4 containers-2 in the freezer for later.  1 container will be heading to school with College Boy on Wednesday.
This hot dog chili is a family favorite now and I especially like it as I can just add beans, green chiles, cumin and more onions to a portion to turn it into Mexican chili, so two different flavor profiles quite easily.

On Monday while making the mac and cheese for dinner I portioned off 1/4 of the bechamel sauce I made and also did a small pot of Cheese and Cauliflower Soup(CB's fav)for him to take to school with him, as it starts with the same recipe.

And all those cukes?
Besides being an addition to the salad served on Sunday I turned 7 of them into pickles.........


Three jars of bread and butter pickles(2 pictured)and a large Tupperware container of my mother's "Almost New Pickles"(a vinegary type pickle)which is not pictured.

After making peanut butter cookies for College Boy to haul back to school with him later today and finishing the sauce for the pulled pork for dinner I am taking a break from cooking for a few days.

Wednesday the Daughter and I are getting a pizza from the local place that does the "sweet sauce" pie that is a fav in this region as Hubs and CB will be gone.  We'll have salad with that.

The rest of the week I hope to get by on leftovers, BLT's using farm market "real" tomatoes and whatever else folks can dig out of the fridge/pantry.

I am done cooking for a bit.

What's been cooking at your house lately?

Sluggy

Monday, August 21, 2017

This Week on the Dining Table

The  "Do I Really Have to Cook Again?!?" Edition--

I am easing back into cooking again at Chez Sluggy. I tried to come up with meals not involving turning on the oven last week and will keep that trend going this coming week too.

Just one of the many foods I cooked on Sunday.......it's still the weather to smoke meats!



Moving On....

Onward to the meal planning!

Here's what was planned last week--

1. Sunday--Meal at Chris' house
2. Monday--Eating-Out
3. Tuesday--Easy Meal at Home
4. Wednesday--No Clue Yet
5. Thursday--No Clue Yet
6. Friday--No Clue Yet
7. Saturday--No Clue Yet

And this is what actually happened--

1. Sunday--BBQ Turkey Breast,Corn on the Cob, Tomatoes, Fruit Salad, Ice Cream(Mmmm)
2. Monday--Bowl of Soup and Zuke Fries
3. Tuesday--Spaghetti and Meatballs, Garlic Bread
4. Wednesday--TV Dinners(I had pork chop, taters and apples)
5. Thursday--Kielbasa on Rolls
6. Friday--Pork Tenderloin Sandwiches, Green Beans
7. Saturday--Beer Can Chicken, Stuffing, Corn on Cob

Last week saw 6 nights of home cooked dinners(1 night was tv dinners tho), 0 nights of leftovers and 1 nights of Eating-Out.
The Daughter had made dinner for us when we got home on Tuesday and had bought TV dinners so I didn't have to jump back into cooking for another day too. 8-)))
I managed to do Kielbasa on Thursday as it was an easy meal(didn't make anything to accompany it though), we had pork chops and green beans in the freezer still for Friday's dinner and I had bought two chickens on Friday so roasted chicken on the grill for Saturday.

I made 1 trip each to the Bakery Outlet, Weis Markets, Maine Source and the Shursave Market.  $106.07 was spent last week, bringing food spending in August to $214.44.
There are 10 days left in the month so I think I'll make my under $420 goal for August. 
Go me.  ;-)

My savings percentages last week and for the month so-far? Last week was 57.15% and the monthly is 49.21%(without Rite-Aid trips added in).

Leftovers going into this week........roast chicken, stuffing, pork tenderloin,

Here is this week's "food plan".....

1. Sunday--Chicken Marsala, Noodles, Salad
2. Monday--Marinated Steak, Mac and Cheese, Veggie of some kind
3. Tuesday--Pulled Pork Sandwiches, Cole Slaw
4. Wednesday--Take-Out Pizza
5. Thursday--Chicken Salad Sandwiches
6. Friday--Leftovers
7. Saturday--BLT Sandwiches

This week will see 5 new meals cooked, 1 nights of leftovers and 1 night of Take-Out/Eating-Out.

What I need to buy for this menu?  Rolls, Cabbage and Carrots(or a bagged Cole Slaw mix).  College Boy leaves on Wednesday so it's just Daughter and I for dinner that night so we'll get a pizza.  The end of the week will be using up leftovers mostly or I'll dig something out of the chest freezer that I can prepare without turning on the oven.

What is getting fixed and served at your house this week?

Was last week's plan successful, did you go off plan or did you not even plan what was going to be eaten last week?

Any great deals on food at your stores this week?


Sluggy

Sunday, August 20, 2017

College Boy's Summer Savings

I feared for the worst when Hubs and I took off a month ago for our Road Trip.
Feared for College Boy's progress toward financial/saving success.
If you remember, CB has only recently taken baby steps toward handling money well, and we had a sit-down heart to heart talk with him over money and how things would work this Summer.
That post is HERE.

I figured that once we left on our vacation all his good intentions would fly out the window and he'd stop putting his paychecks away to save.

But my fears were for naught it turns out!
College Boy didn't regress back into his spendthrift ways when I wasn't there to oversee his saving progress.

In fact, he withdrew his pay from that stupid "pay debit card" his employer loads up with his paycheck each week while we were away and had tucked the cash into an envelope in my computer desk awaiting my return and me putting this all in the bank..........



He was almost up to $1,100 saved by the time we returned!

This past week's check was spent on a new cell phone(and service)and a new keyboard for the computer he bought earlier this Summer(he hadn't bought a keyboard with it and was using an old one we had which shit the bed recently).
He'll get two more paychecks(one before leaving and the other once he is back at school)before ending his Summer employment which should get him close to his $1,500 goal.($2,100 total with $600 being spent on a planned purchase of a new computer, so $1,500 in cash.)

And that's even with his hours being cut at his job for a couple of weeks.

It's noticeable this Summer that he's being more thoughtful with his spending, even when I wasn't home to ride him about it. lolz

Now to see if he can hold it together when he gets back to school and doesn't fall off the spending rails when confronted with all the bad, bad temptations living away from home in his first apartment situation will present.

It's nice to see your kids "grow" up. 8-)

Sluggy