While Firstborn child was home last week, he went through the closet of the spare room where all the detritus of his life is stored.
"Like mother, like son" I know you are thinking.
But Oh!....you would be wrong.
You know what detritus is, don't you?.....all the stuff your kid leaves behind when he/she moves out for good.
Every parent who has grown kids has a house full of this at some point in the life cycle. Depending on your kid, the amount and how long it sits in your house can vary greatly.
Firstborn did a great job with this decluttering and now only has a couple of articles of clothing, a couple of framed things from wrestling and high school and 2 boxes of "mementoes" stored in that closet. He emptied the dresser and left a huge box of books and movies to take to Salvation Army or pitch. I checked on Amazon about listing some of these things and selling back the textbooks to them. The textbooks are not current editions so worthless basically and I'll be throwing those out(or using them for fire starters out back in the camp fire ring). I know.....I am committing a sacrilege burning books.....lol
Only 3 items were worth the time/effort to list on Amazon so I've done that and the rest I'll send off to SA(a few I'll read first however).
Firstborn also left a bag of "garbage" in the spare room for us to add to our supply on Garbage Night.
But first, I went through the "garbage".
I did that because Firstborn has a penchant for throwing out perfectly useful and good items.......grrrrr
Of the items we found in that bag of "garbage" were.....
* 2 partial rolls of duct tape(Hubs about had a hissy fit over this! lol)
* a pair of hiking boot leather shoelaces still in the packaging
* an armband for a Zune mp3 player(hey, somebody else can use this)
* a Birthday badge for a 21 yr. old(with a spinner to see what you should buy them to drink at the bar)
* a brand new t-shirt I had bought him for Christmas with the tags still on it!
There were a few other things he deemed "garbage" too.....
A set of keys. One key was from the totaled Toyota but I emailed him to check on the other keys and they are safe to throw out.
With his mindset of throwing out perfectly good stuff, I thought I'd better ask...
A gargoyle and a bobblehead bassett hound figurine. These were birthday gifts at some point and are acceptable to send to SA.
The Lord of the Rings Hallmark ornament(unused and still in the box!)was a gift again from me at Christmas. I have an entire cardboard box of Xmas ornaments I have collected for each of my children tucked away for when they set up their own households. Makes me rethink collecting these ornies for them when I see him toss one away like this.
My firstborn doesn't seem to have one sentimental bone in his body.
More's the pity....
And then I came across this......
Obviously a handmade/handpainted gift one of his friends made for him. Now tell me, how could one just trash something like this with such a heartfelt, personal sentiment on it?? ;-)
Thanks to Firstborn's efforts, I am one baby step closer now to getting this house cleared out.
I think I am going to need a shovel & a roll off container though when it comes time to get the youngest child's crap outta here!
Sluggy
"Like mother, like son" I know you are thinking.
But Oh!....you would be wrong.
You know what detritus is, don't you?.....all the stuff your kid leaves behind when he/she moves out for good.
Every parent who has grown kids has a house full of this at some point in the life cycle. Depending on your kid, the amount and how long it sits in your house can vary greatly.
Firstborn did a great job with this decluttering and now only has a couple of articles of clothing, a couple of framed things from wrestling and high school and 2 boxes of "mementoes" stored in that closet. He emptied the dresser and left a huge box of books and movies to take to Salvation Army or pitch. I checked on Amazon about listing some of these things and selling back the textbooks to them. The textbooks are not current editions so worthless basically and I'll be throwing those out(or using them for fire starters out back in the camp fire ring). I know.....I am committing a sacrilege burning books.....lol
Only 3 items were worth the time/effort to list on Amazon so I've done that and the rest I'll send off to SA(a few I'll read first however).
Firstborn also left a bag of "garbage" in the spare room for us to add to our supply on Garbage Night.
But first, I went through the "garbage".
I did that because Firstborn has a penchant for throwing out perfectly useful and good items.......grrrrr
Of the items we found in that bag of "garbage" were.....
* 2 partial rolls of duct tape(Hubs about had a hissy fit over this! lol)
* a pair of hiking boot leather shoelaces still in the packaging
* an armband for a Zune mp3 player(hey, somebody else can use this)
* a Birthday badge for a 21 yr. old(with a spinner to see what you should buy them to drink at the bar)
* a brand new t-shirt I had bought him for Christmas with the tags still on it!
There were a few other things he deemed "garbage" too.....
With his mindset of throwing out perfectly good stuff, I thought I'd better ask...
A gargoyle and a bobblehead bassett hound figurine. These were birthday gifts at some point and are acceptable to send to SA.
The Lord of the Rings Hallmark ornament(unused and still in the box!)was a gift again from me at Christmas. I have an entire cardboard box of Xmas ornaments I have collected for each of my children tucked away for when they set up their own households. Makes me rethink collecting these ornies for them when I see him toss one away like this.
My firstborn doesn't seem to have one sentimental bone in his body.
More's the pity....
And then I came across this......
Obviously a handmade/handpainted gift one of his friends made for him. Now tell me, how could one just trash something like this with such a heartfelt, personal sentiment on it?? ;-)
Thanks to Firstborn's efforts, I am one baby step closer now to getting this house cleared out.
I think I am going to need a shovel & a roll off container though when it comes time to get the youngest child's crap outta here!
Sluggy
