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Wednesday, September 2, 2015

A Sad Day

I had dinner with Jay back in mid July.  You might remember this photo I posted from that trip.


This would be the last time I would see Jay.

He passed away early this morning I've been told.
My heart is just breaking.

We have lost a gem....... a truly good man who gave more than his share to this world and those in it.
I just don't know what to say beyond that.

You WERE loved while you were here Jay, please know that.

Rest in peace my friend...........

Sluggy
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20 comments:

  1. SAMSeptember 2, 2015 at 12:47 PM

    I am sorry for the loss of your friend. Let the good memories support you in this time.

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  2. anne marie in phillySeptember 2, 2015 at 1:38 PM

    WTH?????

    heart attack?

    please fill us in, sluggy!

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  3. CheapchickSeptember 2, 2015 at 2:02 PM

    I am so sorry about your friend. That truly sucks. I am just happy that you got to spend some time on your last trip with him. Hugs.

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  4. One FamilySeptember 2, 2015 at 2:04 PM

    How sad! I'm sorry for the loss of your friend. Was he a blogger, too?

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  5. AnonymousSeptember 2, 2015 at 3:40 PM

    I thought his last blog post sounded weird. Jay committed suicide and had the time to write his last post telling us all 'goodbye'
    http://jgmurphy.org/wp/?p=6110

    How very sad that something could have driven this man to such an extreme end.
    I hope you have found the serenity you needed, Jay.
    Rest in Peace.
    :(

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  6. CarolSeptember 2, 2015 at 3:44 PM

    I did not know the man, just through you but he must have been in terrible straits. I hope he is at peace now.

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  7. CTMOMSeptember 2, 2015 at 4:31 PM

    So sorry for the loss of you friend. : (

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  8. MelissaSeptember 2, 2015 at 5:33 PM

    Oh Jay!!! You were loved...

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  9. LorraineSeptember 2, 2015 at 5:48 PM

    Oh that's so sad. I'm so very sorry.

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  10. JaneSeptember 2, 2015 at 7:02 PM

    So sorry Sluggy! HUGS!!

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  11. BelindaSeptember 2, 2015 at 7:05 PM

    I'm so sorry for your loss, Sluggy.

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  12. AnonymousSeptember 2, 2015 at 7:11 PM

    Condolences on the loss of your friend. I'm very sorry.

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  13. RachelSeptember 2, 2015 at 9:05 PM

    So sorry for the loss of your friend. Prayers of comfort for his family and friends during this time.

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  14. Ms. SandieSeptember 2, 2015 at 10:05 PM

    I'm very sorry. It is so sad when people we care about cannot be in our immediate lives anymore.

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  15. Ur-spoSeptember 3, 2015 at 12:12 AM

    I got the news this morning; I am sorrowful as well. It seems senseless but I don't have all the facts; only the sadness of his death.

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  16. Anne in the kitchenSeptember 3, 2015 at 12:23 AM

    I am so sorry for your loss. I know it doesn't ease your feelings, but know you are being thought of right now.

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  17. tahoegirl.blogSeptember 3, 2015 at 9:53 AM

    I'm so sorry to hear this news. It's so devastating to lose someone suddenly. Let the tears flow and remember the special times.

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  18. Sonya AnnSeptember 3, 2015 at 10:16 AM

    I'm so so sorry. Love you my cuz.

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  19. FrancesSeptember 4, 2015 at 5:14 PM

    I am so sorry to hear this. Prayers for his family and friends.

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  20. UnknownSeptember 5, 2015 at 9:48 PM

    Hello Sluggy, I found out something was wrong last Sunday, I got a phone call last Sunday afternoon from Ur Spo. He said Jay had a couple of disturbing blog posts. I called Jay later on and ask him what was up. He told me in a few days it wouldn't matter. At that time I didn't know what he meant. Jay went on to say that some body, he wouldn't say who "J' accused" him of having child porn. I guess he felt he could not go on and that suicide was the only way out. A "Bro" as he puts it let every one know. It happened this past (9-02-2015) Wednesday morning. I don't know how, where, or who found him. I feel so sad for his family and friends. :-(

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